i think a lot of people have very different college experiences, and they are defined by and derive from choices that they make in terms of what is most important to them, who is important to them, and what they are willing to put in.
this is rude, but i don’t care — sometimes i see facebook albums from people i am friends with on the site (thanks, mini feed!), and i just think “wow every time i see an album with this person in it, s/he is hanging out with the same people and doing the same thing.” i wonder if people realize that the “awesome time!!!!” they had this weekend looks exactly like what they did the last, or if they noticed that they are friends with the same ten people and never broaden their circle of friends. i think i mostly just feel bad for these people. (since i feel genuinely bad for them, this actually isn’t rude to bring up, right?)
i am no exception, for example, i often think about how very different my life would be if i were involved with the athletics department and had games/meets/etc and hung out with a pre-defined group of people for that reason, or something like that, but i realize that my own unique college experience has been entirely great and i am glad things have happened and worked out the way that they have.
i’m not saying i have the best group of friends possible, but… okay actually i am saying that.
happy new year 2009!




